concīs publishes “Family Trees for Bastards”

A new iteration of the “Family Trees for Bastards” series will be on the front page of the journal concīs for a few days, and then available eternally in its digital archives at http://concis.io/issues/summer-2016/leavitt-family-trees/.  Thank you to editor Chris Lott.

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Putting Research in Memoir

As a recovering English teacher, I know how the word “research” can effect people. Start talking about research in a college classroom, and it can look like your students have joined the zombie apocalypse. But it doesn’t have to be that way! Now I’m a HipChick

In this video, my favorite memoirist, Sandra Gail Lambert, and I talk about three different kinds of research activities for memoir writers: interviewing people, mining personal documents, and interpreting scholarly sources.

Four Sanity-Saving Tips for Ignoring Mother’s Day

Thanks to Elle Curadaigh for posting this on FB!

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[photo credit: flickr user missy.killer!] [photo credit: flickr user missy.killer!] How should you celebrate Mother’s Day when your mother was emotionally abusive?

Short answer: You don’t have to celebrate it.

Short answer for adult survivors who are mothers: You celebrate your being a mom, and you reflect, pray, and learn about being a better one every day.

Last year, I wrote about celebrating Mother’s Day when you have an abusive mother. But this year, I wanted to write about another option: ignoring the holiday altogether.

You can ignore Mother’s Day, you know.

You’re not under any moral obligation to celebrate this holiday. After all, it didn’t even come to existence until 1914! Anna Jarvis started Mother’s Day in the United States to honor her mom’s life and inspire people to honor their own moms. But the holiday got quickly out of control, with huge candy corporations and greeting-card companies exploiting the holiday…

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Family Trees for Bastards: Shorn

 

 

shornIt’s no one’s fault this tree’s heartwood is all that’s left standing, that its bark and outer trunk lie shorn around it. This deep in the woods, and far enough from a lumber road, you can be sure the shearing is not the work of man. Pileated woodpeckers, bark beetles, fungi, old age, and weather are the only actors here. Maybe some microscopic disease.

In another generation or two, the heartwood will be less than history, and more than history. Even now, the air and other roots absorb its molecules. No one’s fault, no one’s shame.

Family Trees for Bastards: Open Womb

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Springs of varying magnitudes feed the Ichetucknee river, and so do rains. The river’s levels rise and fall. Today, the water is high, and the river flows into the cypress swamps spreading out alongside it.

On calm days of great amplitude, the trees multiply and stretch a second self onto the river’s surface. We don’t know any better than to call these new trees reflections.

I could slide from my kayak into this tree’s reflection  and dive right into its open womb.

What would your mother think?!?!?!

Fear of writing — we’ve all experienced that twist in the gut over self-revelation and what other people might think of us. Or, over our revelations about other people’s behavior, and how those revelations might kill off important relationships. In the inaugural video of what author Sandra Gail Lambert and I hope will be a series, the Hip Chicks on Writing (irony intended) discuss these fears.